Cinta?
Love?
Wikipedia:
Love has several different meanings in the English language, from
something that gives a little pleasure ("I loved that meal") to
something that one would die for (patriotism, pair-bonding). It can
describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional
state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love. As an
experience usually felt by a person for another person, it is commonly
considered impossible to describe. Dictionaries tend to define love as
deep affection or fondness.[1] In colloquial use, according to polled
opinion, the most favoured definitions of love include the words:[2]
- life - someone or something for which you would give your life.
- care - someone or something about which you care more than yourself.
- friendship - favoured interpersonal associations or relationships.
- union - a synergistic connection, as in the perfect union of two souls.
- family - people related via common ancestry, religion, or race, etc.
concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence
of love, calling it a recently invented abstraction. Moreover,
approximately 13 percent of cultures reportedly have no word for
love.[3] Others maintain that love exists but is undefinable; being a
quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature,
etc. Perhaps due to its emotional primacy, love is one of the most
common themes in art.
Cinta
itu memang kompleks, jadi kalau mau lebih baik, tentu memperhatikan
banyak unsur. Selama ini kalau antara lawan jenis, cinta itu dipastikan
"lust" ya? Tidak ada yg tidak ada "lust"? Atau kah kitanya saja yg
terperangkap oleh apa yg ada di masyarakat? Termasuk tafsir2 dari
ustad? Atau kah memang benar2 tafsir dari Quran & hadist?
Siti
Fatimah pernah berkata kepada Ali bin Abi Thalib, “ Wahai Ali
sesungguhnya sebelum menikah,ada laki-laki di kota Mekkah ini yang
sangat aku kagumi. “. “ Jadi engkau menyesal menikah denganku ? “ ujar
Ali. “Tentu tidak, karena laki-laki itu adalah engkau….. “
Bener ga ya cerita ini? 
. Kalo bener, wow! 
"hubbul wathon, minal iman", kata pak Umar bin Khattab. Dan banyak lagi cinta2 yg lain. Syarat2 cinta?
At
Taubah:24. Katakanlah: "jika bapa-bapa, anak-anak, saudara-saudara,
isteri-isteri, kaum keluargamu, harta kekayaan yang kamu usahakan,
perniagaan yang kamu khawatiri kerugiannya, dan tempat tinggal yang
kamu sukai, adalah lebih kamu cintai dari Allah dan Rasul-Nya dan dari
berjihad di jalan-Nya, maka tunggulah sampai Allah mendatangkan
keputusan-Nya." Dan Allah tidak memberi petunjuk kepada orang-orang
yang fasik.
Cinta, di mana kah kau?
Telah kah sampai ke qolbuku?
Yang terdalam yang berseru?
Hingga tak ada keindahan yang berlalu.
Dan ada senyum ketika telah tiba waktu.
